not like the rest of men

"Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, 

or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope.

We believe that Jesus died and rose again

 and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him."

I Thessalonisans 4:13-14

We surely grieve, yet He surely comforts.